We use length as a marker of success .
There's an atmosphere around them that is palpable .
The atmosphere around them is of a certain kind of mutual respect .
The atmosphere around them is of mutual respect, adoration , and acceptance.
A certain kind of acceptance is a sign of a good relationship.
They've created a world in which there is space for them to thrive .
Is it a music of mutual respect, or is it a music of gotcha ?
This is where you failed; this is where you messed up .
It doesn't break under pressure , but it changes under pressure.
Have you become enmeshed with each other?
Everything about you that is different, you just repress or dissociate .
How do you work through your differences?
Am I ready to let someone else in with their otherness?
Am I ready to let someone else in with their otherness ?
Can I hold space for someone else to go through their transformation?
Chances are they're not going to come fully formed .
You can't really be in a conditional relationship .
We love hanging out and having drinks and we have good banter .
We have good banter and we can spar verbally .
The person that you get hooked onto has components that are important for you to revisit.
In your gut , you're terribly attracted to that person.
Don't give the benefit of the doubt .
Guard your own is not a good attitude.
I used to believe that compatibility is the most important thing.
The capacity to love someone different from you is the best source of growth .
We've been spending too much time trying to find this perfect match .
I really put my heart and soul into helping them, and I did not make a dent .
I couldn't imagine why a family would keep going with that level of toxicity .
It is not a good idea to live in that kind of environment day in, day out .
If everyone had to follow one law, it would be: do no harm .
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